Let’s skip the whole intro and go to what matters today is Valentine’s day and very nice to spend a good time doing great things and fun things. I am not sure what is your plan but mine is to stay indoors and chill with my beloved one and spend a quiet quality time together. Matt and I met right after the Valentine’s and it is funny to think we are a year together, but we did meet for sure. I am glad that happened. It is beautiful to think someone is there for you doesn’t matter how.
One year together is a lot and we went thru few bumps but we still strong especially when we give the right time for things to just unfold.
One of the greatest things about having a partner is that being alone sucks and because we are human deserving of love, appreciation, and affection. Being a part of someone’s life is sharing, connecting, make new experiences and renewing old ones. Is to be PRESENT. Maybe your Valentine’s Day will be alone, your family, your friends or even with your dog. Just remember to love yourself, give yourself a treat, and think about the love you want.
Something was not right this morning. It was in in the air and I could sense the feeling all week. I know the energy out there is not the best for the singles or for the ones unhappy, but this is the opportunity to love and reconnect with whomever you desire, even yourself. I came to find out that it was that people’s hearts are sometimes lost and not so close to themselves. Because they forget that once in a while loving itself is not a bad thing.
I remember when I used to nanny, the children
would make a big deal out of giving cards and candy to their sweetheart who was in fact never their beloved, but rather because they chose to gift the gift of choosing and being chosen.
Valentine’s Day for the majority is a commercial excuse for business to push flowers, chocolate and jewelry yet for others is the excuse to do something for themselves or even to do nothing and let the lovers be.
Just because Cupids arrow has not pierced your heart yet doesn’t mean it is the end of the world. It’s just the end one more commercial “holiday”. Afterwards, everything will be back to normal. Get out there and celebrate.
Talking about Valentine is not about dating. Make sure you are present in your relationship 365 days of your life and Valentine’s day won’t have to be just one single day every year.